Getting Back Into Life

Getting Back Into Life

These questions help you think about changes in your daily life after a stroke for example, taking care of children or pets. They help you think if you can return to activities you enjoy and your relationships with family and friends.


  1. Read through the questions for you and your caregiver.  You can also ask someone to read them with you. 
  2. Think about the questions you do not have the answers to.
  3. Write down the steps you will take to find the answers, such as asking your health care team or those around you.
  4. Download and/or print the questions and answers using the download button. To save your responses, select “Print to PDF” as the print option.
  5. Think about other questions you have and write them down.
  6. Review other sections when you are ready. 

Getting Back Into Life

Life Roles

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Has there been a change in my day-to-day roles since my stroke (for example: taking care of my children, my pets, doing things around the house or at work)?

Do I know where to get advice so I can continue my roles or learn about new roles?

Do I need to learn new strategies and skills to manage day-to-day?

Can I get back to work, volunteer or to school?

Do I need retraining? (see section on return to work)?

Have my relationships with my partner, children, family or friends changed?

If answered "yes" to any of the questions above, do I know who to talk to or how to get help?

Social Support and Activities

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Are there activities I enjoy and want to continue but am not sure how to?

Am I able to visit the same places as before (for example: social events or place of worship)?

Do I want to join any social, recreational or fitness programs?

Do I need any equipment so I can take part in these social, recreational or fitness activities?

Are my family, friends and I coping well?

Am I interested in joining a support group for people who have had a stroke? Do I know where to find one?

Sex and Intimacy

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Do I know if it is safe to have sex again?

If I am unable to have sex, do I know how to be intimate?

Am I able to express my feelings and needs during sex and intimacy?

Do I know who to talk to about sex and intimacy after my stroke (for example: equipment, different positions or medications)?

Sex and Intimacy Questions for Partners

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My partner's sexual behaviours are different than before the stroke. Do I know what is causing this?

Am I coping well with these changes?

Do I feel uncomfortable being intimate with my partner because I am now providing them care?

Do I know where to get help if I answered ‘yes’ to any of the questions above?

Work, School or Volunteering

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Am I able to return to work, school, or volunteering?

Do I know when I can return to work or school?

Do I know who can assess me to see if I can go back to work or school?

Have I talked with my boss about what will be expected of me if/when I return to work (for example: flexible hours, work from home or different responsibilities)?

Do I know who to talk to at my school or work about changes to make it accessible (for example: ramps, proper desk and chair, changes in equipment)?

If I can't return to my job, do I know what other options I have (for example: train for another job, return to school, or retire)?

I would like to volunteer. Do I know where to find information about volunteering?

Travelling

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Is it safe for me to travel by car, train, boat or plane after stroke?

Is there anything specific I need to be aware of when travelling after a stroke (for example: precautions, medications, vaccinations)?

Do I need to speak to someone to ensure things are set up at the place I am travelling to (for example: bathroom equipment, ramps)?

Do I have travel insurance?

Do I know what to do if something happens while away from home?

Question for the caregiver: Do I know what to do if something happens while we are away?

Questions to ask yourself in your recovery

As you re-engage in your community, there may be things you need to consider. Click on any image for questions that can help you think about what you need during your recovery.

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